Crystal Healing

What this is:
a poll for everyone about your personal history which requests you to look back deep and honest about your psychological development.

It is also a repeat targeting a wider audience of responders.

Both your identity of gender and your sexuality - Did it develop gradually? Was it sudden? Was it entirely constant since birth?

What this is not:
a request for group-inclusive talk, information about yourself from others, literature or personal attacks.

It is also not an attack or implication of any form.
Thanks, keep the answers coming.

Sophie, you might be interested in my other question open in Philosophy.
Also it is both erroneous and inappropriate to suggest "You are implying a person has a choice"

I am questioning time and mode, and I appreciate people to read my question before answering.
I don't know what all this "supposed to be" is about, hopefully you are supposed to be what you are.